My wife “Janna” and I have been fighting for weeks over how to punish our 8-year-old son, “Jonah,” for something he did on Thanksgiving. I think her punishment goes beyond the pale. During dinner, our ...

How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! This is one of those things I only discovered once I moved in with my boyfriend a couple of ...